{"id":12084,"date":"2014-02-11T12:56:07","date_gmt":"2014-02-11T18:56:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sites.imsa.edu\/acronym\/?p=12084"},"modified":"2023-04-15T17:48:44","modified_gmt":"2023-04-15T22:48:44","slug":"build-me-up-buttercup-on-relationships-at-imsa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sites.imsa.edu\/acronym\/2014\/02\/11\/build-me-up-buttercup-on-relationships-at-imsa\/","title":{"rendered":"Build Me Up, Buttercup: On Relationships at IMSA"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>With its strict rules and typical breed of student, IMSA doesn\u2019t seem to be the kind of place to particularly promote and provide for romantic relationships.&nbsp; It does, however, seem to have a lot of them, especially with the recent rush of new senior couples. Couples seem to thrive on IMSA\u2019s cramped living spaces and little campus.&nbsp; Though I have yet to understand how or why, I cannot help but be drawn to the curious nature of IMSA\u2019s couples. Cute or corny, they all exist in one way or another, seemingly happier than the rest of us.<\/p>\n<p>It is often said that IMSA is one of the most stressful experiences in its students\u2019 lives.&nbsp; Indeed, this could be part of the reason why relationships seem so abundant at IMSA.&nbsp; When the body is stressed, it releases two hormones in particular:&nbsp; adrenaline and oxytocin.&nbsp; The second of these two, oxytocin, is very important to the mind when forming relationships, so much so that it has been nicknamed \u201cthe cuddle hormone.\u201d&nbsp; When it is released into the body, it promotes social behavior by facilitating trust and attachment to other people; it causes the body to crave physical and emotional contact.&nbsp; It\u2019s possible that the high levels of stress that students experience makes them more prone to forming relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Whether it\u2019s a boyfriend or a girlfriend, \u201csignificant others\u201d often become your best friend.&nbsp; They are one of the people closest to you, and after a while, they start to get to know the real you.&nbsp; Even though this connection can sometimes lead to heartbreak and pain, it\u2019s good to have someone to hold on to.&nbsp; We all need a confidant, and that person can be your significant other.&nbsp; You need not know all or tell all, but trustworthiness is an important characteristic in life, and having a good relationship can help build that trait in anyone.<\/p>\n<p>High school is a time for growing and changing.&nbsp; None of us know who we are or what we mean to this world yet.&nbsp; It is the place to discover yourself and the world around you.&nbsp; It\u2019s the time to learn about how people think and react.&nbsp; Take advantage of the opportunity.&nbsp; Take the time to be yourself and enjoy your friendships and relationships.&nbsp; In the end, it\u2019s important to remember that IMSA is still a high school and that high school is supposed to be the time of our lives. So live a little, laugh a little, and a love a little; you never know what tomorrow will bring.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>With its strict rules and typical breed of student, IMSA doesn\u2019t seem to be the kind of place to particularly promote and provide for romantic&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":65,"featured_media":33416,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[2203,1031,1289,2201,1469,2202,2200,1513],"coauthors":[1908],"class_list":["post-12084","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinions","tag-high-school","tag-imsa","tag-life","tag-love","tag-opinions-2","tag-oxytocin","tag-relationships","tag-stress"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.imsa.edu\/acronym\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12084","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.imsa.edu\/acronym\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.imsa.edu\/acronym\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.imsa.edu\/acronym\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/65"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.imsa.edu\/acronym\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12084"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/sites.imsa.edu\/acronym\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12084\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":36802,"href":"https:\/\/sites.imsa.edu\/acronym\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12084\/revisions\/36802"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.imsa.edu\/acronym\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33416"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.imsa.edu\/acronym\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12084"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.imsa.edu\/acronym\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12084"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.imsa.edu\/acronym\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12084"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.imsa.edu\/acronym\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/coauthors?post=12084"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}